Monkey See, Monkey Say

Humans are imitators, whether they know it or not. We unintentionally mimic other folks, especially in terms of mannerisms, facial expressions, and speech (including voice inflections, talking speed, and style).

Researchers at the University of California recently investigated this unintentional imitation. They instructed a group of normal hearing individuals with no formal lip-reading experience to watch a silent video of someone speaking a list of words. After each word, the test subjects were to identify that word by saying it out loud clearly and quickly. They were never asked to imitate the silent person on the video. The researchers found that when people say aloud what they’ve lip read, their speech sounds like that of the talker. In fact, the words spoken by the test subjects sounded more like the lip-read words of the talker (whom was never heard and only seen) as compared with the words the subjects spoke when simply reading from a list.

While this interesting research will help to shed light on speech recognition, there is a deeper, more fundamental principle to be gleaned here. Basically, we sound like those around us act —and— they sound like we act.

Think about it. For example, if we are surrounded by people who act crabby and irritable, does our language sound upbeat and happy? Probably not. Chances are we sound more like them. We are mimickers by nature.

So, every now and then we all need a good sound check. We need to stop and ask ourselves what do I sound like and what do those around me sound like. If we don’t enjoy what we hear, then either we’re acting bad and causing others to mimic us by grumbling, or we’re mimicking the actions of other cranky folks with our speech. Either possibility requires us to refocus our attention.

The Bible warns us to not imitate the detestable ways of others (Deut 18:9). Instead, we are to remember our leaders who speak the word of God to us and imitate their faith (Heb 13:7). Ultimately, we should imitate the ways of Jesus so that when others watch and mimic us, they sound pleasing to the Lord.